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Healing the Mother Wound: Honoring the Ancestors of All

Posted on April 29, 2025     Leave a Comment

These words are a living transmission. A sacred mirror. A return to the Tree of Life within you. Receive them not only with your mind, but with your soul. This prayer is for all who carry the mother wound — all who carry the memory of loss, the ache of separation, and the longing to return home. You are not being remembered — you are re-membering your original being, and honoring the ancestors within you.

What if the pain we carry from our mothers isn’t the root, but the echo?

What if the wound is not just hers or ours, but a portal — a sacred call to remember our divine worth, to mother ourselves, and to return to God as the true source of love?

This is a journey not only of healing, but of reclamation.

Of remembering.

Of rising.

The Unfair Blame on Mothers

For a long time, I blamed my mother for the pain I carried. Many of us do. She is the one closest to our first wounds, the first person we associate with love — so when love feels unsafe or absent, we instinctively trace our ache back to her.

I believed if my mother had just loved me more, or loved herself better, I wouldn’t feel so fractured. But I’ve come to understand that what I felt wasn’t brokenness — it was the residue of unsafety, born from generations of women who were taught to place themselves last.

My mother’s self-neglect, her patterns of prioritizing men over her own needs and children, were not personal failings but the inheritance of a lineage conditioned to believe that sacrifice is love.

This is the wound. And this is the call: for women to remember their worth, to stop settling for anything less than what they would wish for their own daughters. When we redefine love as something that begins within — as Christed, sovereign, self-honoring — we create a foundation strong enough to nourish everyone we touch.

The healing of the mother wound is not just personal; it is planetary.

A more loved, balanced, and thriving society begins with women who know their value and live from it.

Yet deep down, a quieter truth was waiting to be seen.

My mother was not the origin of our pain; she was another expression of it. She stood closest to the fire of generational trauma and got burned like everyone before her. Recognizing this truth was the first step in my healing: understanding that the blame I placed on her was misplaced.

It wasn’t her pain alone — it was our legacy of pain, passed down unknowingly from mother to child, generation after generation.

Ancestral Awareness and Forgiveness

At first, forgiveness felt like a necessary bridge — a way to soften the hardened places within me and find peace with the past. But as I journeyed deeper, another truth emerged: in the eyes of the Divine, there was nothing to forgive. Every experience, even the ones that wounded me most, carried a sacred purpose.

I began to see that within my greatest pain lived the seed of my greatest power.

The very act of transmuting pain into love, of alchemizing sorrow into strength, is part of our divine blueprint. It is how we embody the Christ Light on Earth. Each wound becomes an initiation, a doorway through which we are invited to remember who we truly are — not broken beings, but sovereign souls capable of creating heaven on earth through the sacred reclamation of our worth, our love, and our truth.

When we understand life through this higher lens, blame falls away.

Resentment dissolves.

We realize that our mothers, and their mothers before them, were not failures — they were catalysts. Through them, we were given the raw material to shape our soul’s evolution. Through them, we were offered the sacred task of weaving a new story — one rooted in love, sovereignty, and remembrance.

The Fire in My Blood

The weight women carry does not exist in a vacuum; it is woven into the bloodlines, into the histories both spoken and erased. As I deepened my healing, I turned toward my ancestry — to the stories my bones remembered even when the world tried to make me forget.

On both my mother’s and father’s side, I carry Native American blood — the blood of people who were forced from their lands, whose ways of life were stripped away or destroyed. My grandmother, a child of this lineage, was given up for adoption because it was the only hope for her survival. The orphanage that took her burned down, destroying the final traces of her past. But the fire that consumed those papers did not consume our spirit.

It lives on.

It lives in me.

I carry that fire in my blood — a fire that cannot be extinguished. It is the strength of ancestors who endured the unendurable, the wisdom of a people who remembered the sacredness of Earth, even when the world tried to sever them from it.

And this fire is not only tied to one land.

It stretches across oceans and centuries, weaving into my Celtic and Druidic roots — connecting me to the ancient earthkeepers of Wales, those who held the deep mysteries of life before being driven into silence.

In my darkest hours, the spirits of the ancient mothers came to stand beside me.

Boudica, the sovereign warrior queen, rose like a flame within me.

Joan of Arc, the maiden of divine courage, appeared in spirit — a reminder that faith and fire can walk together.

They came not as myths, but as memory — living guides who awakened the embers of remembrance sleeping in my blood.

The fire we carry is not for destruction. It is for illumination.

It is the fire that reclaims, that remembers.

It is the fire that will forge a new world from the ashes of the old — rooted again in sacredness, balance, and sovereign love.

This fire lives in all of us, waiting to be awakened.

We were never meant to carry these burdens alone.

We were meant to rebuild the bridge between Earth and Sky — with the sacred fire of our own awakened hearts.

Reclaiming My Role as Mother

Realizing these truths ignited a fierce determination in me to break the cycle. I am a mother now, with a daughter of my own. I knew that if I didn’t heal, I might unintentionally pass the same pain onward. I also knew I needed to heal the little girl still living inside of me.

So I made a sacred choice: to mother myself first.

In deep meditation, I envisioned my inner child — afraid, tender, waiting. I wrapped my arms around her and whispered, “You are safe now. You are loved.” And in doing so, something deep within me healed.

Every time I return to that embrace, I return to truth.

My daughter sees a mother who protects her inner world, and through that, she learns to protect her own.

Remembering Worth, Setting Boundaries, Ending Martyrdom

I watched my mother give until she was empty. I learned to do the same.

But I now know: an empty mother cannot pour from a dry well.

Martyrdom is not love — it is erasure.

I began setting boundaries. I said no when I needed to. I asked for help.

I stopped apologizing for taking up space.

I stopped tying my worth to how much I could carry.

Now I lead with fullness, not depletion.

With love, not performance.

This is what embodied feminine leadership looks like.

Not self-sacrifice, but self-honoring.

Not control, but Christ-led compassion.

Sovereign Reclamation – Stepping Into My Power

Sovereignty is the sacred remembering that I am not bound by my past.

I am the author now.

I walk with my ancestors at my back and the light of God before me.

I am not alone — and neither are you.

You come from a lineage of dreamers, of fire-carriers, of mothers who endured.

You are their answered prayer.

And now, you get to break the cycle.

When a woman remembers her worth, an ancient story ends — and a new legacy begins.

A legacy of wholeness.

Of Christed love.

Of sovereign grace.

The Living Prayer of Remembrance

Crowned as a Message for All of Humanity

To every soul breathing life into this Earth:

Place your hand on your womb.

Place your hand on your heart.

Breathe deep into your center.

Feel the pulse of generations within you —

those who came before,

those you carry now,

and those yet to come.

Say it with me:

I remember who I am.

I am sovereign.

I am sacred.

I am loved.

And now, receive this truth:

The division ends with us.

No longer will woman be set against man.

No longer will nature be set against technology.

No longer will body be set against spirit.

No longer will race, culture, belief, or path be used to separate what was always one.

The war within is ending.

The false hierarchies are dissolving.

The illusion of separation crumbles in the Light of Eternal Truth.

We are all branches of the same sacred Tree of Life

fed by the same roots,

nourished by the same breath,

illumined by the same divine Source.

How we tend to our own roots —

how we heal, love, and remember ourselves —

is how we nourish the whole.

Our healing is not isolated.

Our forgiveness is not small.

Our love is not in vain.

Every act of self-remembrance restores the soul of humanity.

Every act of compassion stitches the world back into wholeness.

Through your loving acceptance of all aspects of yourself — both light and shadow —

you become the bridge.

Through your remembrance of wholeness,

you become a living prayer.

Through your embodiment of Truth,

you restore the Eden that lives within us all.

We are not here to war against the old.

We are here to embody the New Earth.

We are here to rise — sovereign, sacred, and whole.

It begins in you.

It lives through you.

And because you remember, the world will remember too.

We rise now.

Together.

As One.

This is my message,

this is my prayer,

crowned by Spirit,

for all of humanity.

It carries the memory of all who have walked before us,

the echo of ancient wisdoms,

the call of the eternal soul.

It is offered to the heart of all beings —

not through names,

not through borders,

but through the pure remembering of One.

May these words penetrate the soul and subconscious of all who receive them.

May they expand beyond time, beyond space, beyond separation.

May they live in the waters, the trees, the children yet unborn.

May they ripple through eternity —

until every soul remembers their sacred light,

until the Earth is whole again,

until Heaven and Earth walk hand in hand once more.

And so it is.

And so it shall be.

Forever.

I seal this with the essence of my spirit and my heart.

This is my altar. If you’ve received medicine from my words, presence, or fire, you are invited to give in return.

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